This Easter will be different for my family. On March 13 my Mom, Shirley Schenewerk died. She had been in a dementia care facility since last summer and had been fighting a losing battle with dementia for several years. I was travelling to Tucson to see her and my dad when dad called with the news of her passing. I was in Wickenberg, AZ – a place and time I will remember for the rest of my life.
I finished the drive that morning and arrived in Tucson. Later that evening/early the next morning my sister arrived. Wednesday, March 14 began the rush of events I’ve assisted countless families with as a pastor. Visiting the funeral home, seeing my Mom one last time, making arrangements for my wife and my brother to get to Tucson. Phone calls to alert family and friends. Visits to the Social Security office, calls to insurance companies, banks, and so on. Wednesday afternoon Cindy arrived and planning for the Memorial Service began in earnest. Those days flew by – though there were times of disbelief and bewilderment. Could Mom really be gone? I had last seen her in July 2017 and though she did not recognize me I knew that would be the last time I saw her this side of eternity,
Sunday finally came – and on Saturday I developed a post surgical infection from an oral surgery that had been performed in January – and we gathered with friends and family in the clubhouse of the Mobile Home Park where Dad and Mom have lived since 1998. I shared a few facts and memories (I promise to record in writing soon and share them with family). The pastor of their church shared a brief message of hope from the 23rd Psalm. We laughed, cried, and ate! Certainly was a Baptist gathering!
Monday, March 19 Cindy and I drove away from Tucson and arrived home late on March 20. These past few days have been filled with Easter planning and preparation – both at home and at the church I serve.
Much remains the same, but much has changed.