This One Thing

I see them every day- three principles for better teamwork; five steps to more efficient systems; 7 thoughts for a happier marriage; and the list goes on and on. I keep looking for the article, book, or blogpost that will once and for all tie everything together for me and help me make sense of the complexities I face daily.

I have yet to find that one thing…but this may help. Oswald Chambers, in My Utmost for His Highest,  a book of 365 devotions wrote “The one thing God keeps us to steadily is that we may be one with Jesus Christ.” The Apostle Paul, some few years after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ phrased it this way:

Brothers, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead (Philippians 3:14).

One interesting obsolete definition of ‘pulpit’ identifies the bow point of a ship as a pulpit- an elevated platform on which someone would stand and watch carefully the way forward for the ship.(http://pulpit.askdefine.com/, accessed on 3-13-14.) He/she was charged only with looking forward…not looking backward. I wonder how many hours I have spent looking backward and missed what God had for me because I was looking in the wrong direction!

This one thing…looking forward to whatever God has for me today…

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Dispatches from the Edge

I have been struggling along on the edge of depression – again. It seems to reoccur without warning or without announcement. I honestly started this blog because I hoped to write every week…and I haven’t even kept close to that kind of schedule.

 

Laying that aside, however, I am not writing to elicit sympathy. I write because I am deeply conflicted about some of the issues confronting my life, my church, my community and my world. Writing helps me sort out my thoughts…which if you look at how often I’ve posted may mean I don’t think very often!!

 

One of the conflicts I am struggling with – the nature and role of a church, particularly a church of older adults (pastored by a 57 yr old dinosaur) that desperately wants to reach our community but seems stymied by strategies. Church planting is the advertised and promoted strategy, but in a community where the population numbers are stagnant at best, a ‘new’ church doesn’t seem to be indicated (Winston –  town of around 6,000 has some 14 churches of varying denominations). Another ‘institution’ called church may not be a real help at this time – besides I feel way too old to wear skinny jeans and leave my shirt untucked…heck, I can’t even bring myself to wear jeans to Sunday worship!

 

Part of the discouragement (?) or depression (?) stems from a picture I saw yesterday of several men I have known who are in significant and influential places of ministry. I truly am glad for them, but then I look over the area I have influence in and, well, lets just say its limited in size and scope. I am 57 (didn’t I mention that already?) and facing a future that seems limited in scope and significance.

 

So, back to the challenge. Pastoring a small church with a big heart (and these people truly have a heart for the world around them) is challenging. How do I help them identify strategies that can penetrate the darkness? Of course we pray…and I am leading in a re-visioning of our prayer ministry on Wednesday nights and other opportunities. Of course we host evangelistic events – AWANA’s (Sept – May),VBS, WorldChangers (July) – and we have a visible presence at community events and we seek to share the gospel as often as possible. We have made substantial changes to our worship style and to our Bible study approach on Sunday morning. We are currently working with IMB personnel to engage an unreached people group in Asia (still praying for which group God is leading us to).

 

Maybe I just need to keep on keepin’ on! Maybe I just need to listen more closely to God’s direction and maybe I just need to relax and remember what I read in Chamber’s My Utmost for His Highest this morning: Joy means the perfect fulfilment of that for which I was created and regenerated, not the successful doing of a thing. [1]

 

Thanks for reading! Thanks for praying!


[1] Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest: Selections for the Year (Grand Rapids, MI: Oswald Chambers Publications; Marshall Pickering, 1986).

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My New Years Prayer

I sent a letter to every family in our ministry this Christmas season with the following prayer. It is my goal to pray this for each family in our church on a regular basis during 2014!

I pray that 2014 will be a year in which you will know more of God’s presence and peace so that together we may demonstrate to the world around us what it means to live fully pleasing to God;

 

            I pray that together our lives we bear spiritual fruit as we continue to work together to create a community built on the truth of God’s Word and one that is held together by the presence of God’s Holy Spirit that Jesus Christ might be magnified;

 

            I pray that together we would meet all the challenges 2014 will bring our way with assurance and confidence in God’s power to provide all our needs;

 

            I pray that our lives would be daily demonstrations of thankfulness for all God has already done.

 

May God’s richest blessing rest upon you, your family, and your ministry during the coming year.

Steve

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The Big D

You didn’t ask, but here is an answer to the question: What does depression feel like (at least my experience of depression)? 

You wake up longing for the day to end so you can go back to bed;

You pick up a book- one you wanted to read and your mind refuses to engage with the words on the page;

All the negative things people have said about you throughout your life bounce around in your consciousness- no matter how hard you try to change the messages;

The To-Do list contains tasks you normally do easily but now they seem to be like climbing a mountain in flip-flops;

Spending time with people- even those who deeply love you- is exhausting;

Prayer is something you do just because you know you are supposed to…

I could go on, but these are the most prominent symptoms. I am slowly emerging from a period of depression. I take medication daily for my condition- and though it helps it cannot eliminate the disease. Many through the years have suggested therapies such as: Stop it!; pray harder, read your Bible more, trust God more deeply; and while those may be helpful to others they don’t always bring relief. 

So, pray for me- I know you do; and remember that people in your life who struggle with depression don’t necessarily need advice, they just want you to pray them through those times. Expressions of love are always appreciated- though there may be no visible response (I still need to hear it- even if it gets drowned out by the negative words spoken). Most of all, just being present is always helpful. Just be present. Listen, don’t judge, don’t offer platitudes, just listen!

Thanks for listening.

Keep on praying!

Steve

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“For you said, “We have cut a deal with Death … when the overwhelming scourge passes through it will not touch us…the LORD God said, ‘Look, I have laid a stone in Zion, a tested stone, a precious cornerstone, a sure foundation; the one who believes will be unshakable” (Isaiah 28:15-16)

I am not the first or the most original to observe that our cultures deal with death is rapidly spiraling our of control However, as I was reading these words this morning I was challenged about my own role in making a deal with death. Whenever I choose to sin I make a deal with death- claiming that I am exempt or somehow safe from the consequences of sin. Yes, I know that in Christ there is no condemnation. But I also know that where sin abounds grace abounds. However there is no right to sin so that I may experience grace.

My sin has consequences. My heart becomes a little more deadened every time I choose to sin. My spiritual sensitivity is a little more deadened every time I choose to sin.

The promise of this passage is that God has provided a Rock, a place where I can withstand the powerful temptation to sin, In Christ I have been granted the resources I need to experience life, not death. In Christ I have the freedom to know genuine life- a life that is eternal not just in quantity but in quality!

May God grant us the wisdom to see how sin diminishes and how Christ enriches!

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October 28, 2013 · 9:25 am

Healing for Divorce

Yesterday I shared a message from Matthew 19 where Jesus was asked if there was a legitimate reason for a man to divorce his wife. Many opinions have been expressed on the exception clause Jesus mentioned (also see Matthew 5:31-32).

               

Jesus’ words in vs. 8 seem to be often overlooked. “ He told them, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning. “” (Emphasis added)

 

Divorce is always the result of sin. I think there are two issues churches should carefully consider. First, if anyone is in Christ, he or she is a new creation. Divorce that occurs among non-Christians is a tragedy because of the social and emotional costs. However, I am uncomfortable holding non-believers to a biblical standard of living of which they are unaware. So instead of a stance of condemnation a stance of forgiveness is a more appropriate response.

 

Second, upon new birth new life occurs. New life means a new standard, a new way of measuring and evaluating relationships. Divorce occurs among Christians and is also a tragedy. BUT EVEN BELIEVERS NEED FORGIVENESS.  This is not to excuse behavior. Churches have failed (mine included) in upholding  a biblical view of marriage from the pulpit and in the Bible study environment (Sunday School, small groups, and any form of discipleship groups).

 

Marriage ought not to be confusing. It is given by God, predating the law, the church, the state and any other human institution. Its priority has taken a direct hit in the narcissistic world in which we live. Sin has caused a huge divide between what ought to be and what is. Bridging that divide is what Jesus came to do. I was reminded as I began studying this passage of what is stated in Matthew 19:1-2

When Jesus had finished this instruction, He departed from Galilee and went to the region of Judea across the Jordan. Large crowds followed Him, and He healed them there.

 

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The Generals: American Military Command from WW II to Today

Thomas E. Ricks

New York: The Penguin Press, 2012

 

                What could a survey of the US Army’s treatment of general officers have to say to a pastor? What could compare Sunday after Sunday to leading men and women into battle, sending troops into danger that could cost them their lives?

                Ricks, a long time veteran of covering US military affairs, presents a deeply historical yet analytical look at how general officers in the US Army have been trained and how some of them were relieved, forced into retirement, or transferred into less noticeable roles across the Army landscape. Ricks focuses on the Army because it is still the dominant service in our nation’s military strategy. The Air Force, established in 1947 is too young to have a strongly developed tradition of generalship. The Navy and Marine Corps follow a distinctly different tradition in handling commanders. The Army has a clear and distinct history, particularly since WW II.

                No 20th century history of the US Army could be understood apart from General George C. Marshall, the chief of staff, US Army from September 1, 1939- 1945. He shaped much of America’s military strategy from the firing of Admiral Kimmel and Army Lt. Gen. Short after the December 7th bombing of Pearl Harbor. Marshall was responsible for the rise of a relatively obscure officer named Eisenhower, who was appointed as commander in chief of the allied forces that ultimately landed in France in 1944.

                One lesson observed during the Marshall era: incompetence was quickly dealt with but second chances were offered freely. Ricks points out that  at least five men were relieved of command during WW II but each of them was given a chance to redeem himself by leading troops again into combat.

                The MacArthur Era, also known as the Korean war years, saw a much different way of generals being treated. MacArthur tended to promote those who were loyal to him. MacArthur had a radically different way of dealing with the civilian command structure of the US military establishment- he pretty much ignored them doing as he pleased. President Truman finally was forced to take action and relieve MacArthur of his command during the Korean era.

                The generals of the Vietnam era also had challenging relationships with civilian authorities such as the Secretary of Defense, the National Security Advisor, and, of course, the President.  Ricks’ chapter on that era is titled, ‘The Collapse of Generalship in the 1960’s.” The picture he paints of Army leadership here in the states and in Vietnam is an ugly one. He connects the events at My Lai and the ultimate withdrawal from the conflict in Vietnam with the failure of generalship as well as the breakdown of effective communication between Army leaders and political leaders.

                During the post Vietnam years the army seemed to drift between training generals to be strategic thinkers or training generals how to be better managers. Ricks’ survey of that period (1968-1990) is an interesting reflection on some of the many challenges of that era.

                Since 1991 the army has been more or less engaged in several ongoing conflicts notably in Iraq and Afghanistan. Again Ricks is able to compare and contrast American generals an their widely divergent philosophies and the conduct of the military actions in those fields. Ricks reminds his readers that it is one thing to plan an invasion and a completely different thing to plan an occupation and a withdrawal. Generals tend to be great at planning large scale military operations such as invasions and not so good at long term actions- as is evident in the continuing debate over America’s military presence in both countries.

                Finally Ricks offers a several part solution by reflecting on what advice George Marshall might give today’s generals. First, Marshall might tell generals to keep their social distance from their political leaders, yet he would insist on being heard by those leaders. Second, Marshall might recommend that generals be more adaptive and flexible than ever before. We don’t face the Red Army who threaten to march over Eastern and Western Europe as they did in the 1950’s through the late 1980’s. Third, Ricks thinks Marshall would insist on training generals to think strategically instead of tactically. This bias of Ricks is clear throughout the entire book- and I think it is one worth reflecting on for pastors and other ministry leaders (more in a moment). Further, Marshall might recommend that we relieve commanders quickly but that we build in second chances. Ricks concludes his recommendations by writing, “abide by the belief that the lives of soldiers are more important that the career of officers – and that winning wars is more important than either” (461).

                So, what does a study of generalship have to do with a pastor or ministry leader? You could argue that we are in a spiritual war, and that the stakes are still life and death. I think however, a better argument can be made for the following suggestions:

                We need to know history. As a parent of two millennials and as a community member deeply involved in the public school setting in my community I am appalled at the lack of teaching regarding history in our schools. Second, we as pastors are often very well trained in tactics but not so schooled in strategies. Conferences abound on how to do small groups, how to improve worship teams, how to plan your messages for a year and so on. Many of the ads I receive for conferences still promise that if my team and I attend our church will grow like the host church grew.

                Over the decades of pastoring I have attended a few of those conferences, come home with the newest tactics and immediately implemented tactics for which the people I serve and the community in which I live are simply not applicable. Instead I need to spend more time thinking deeply about strategic issues. One observation that Ricks made that bears repeating:

“training tends to prepare one for known problems, while education better prepares one for the unknown, the unpredictable, and the unexpected.” (419-420).

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October 7, 2013 · 3:52 pm

The Generals: American Military Command from WW II to Today

Thomas E. Ricks

New York: The Penguin Press, 2012

 

                What could a survey of the US Army’s treatment of general officers have to say to a pastor? What could compare Sunday after Sunday to leading men and women into battle, sending troops into danger that could cost them their lives?

                Ricks, a long time veteran of covering US military affairs, presents a deeply historical yet analytical look at how general officers in the US Army have been trained and how some of them were relieved, forced into retirement, or transferred into less noticeable roles across the Army landscape. Ricks focuses on the Army because it is still the dominant service in our nation’s military strategy. The Air Force, established in 1947 is too young to have a strongly developed tradition of generalship. The Navy and Marine Corps follow a distinctly different tradition in handling commanders. The Army has a clear and distinct history, particularly since WW II.

                No 20th century history of the US Army could be understood apart from General George C. Marshall, the chief of staff, US Army from September 1, 1939- 1945. He shaped much of America’s military strategy from the firing of Admiral Kimmel and Army Lt. Gen. Short after the December 7th bombing of Pearl Harbor. Marshall was responsible for the rise of a relatively obscure officer named Eisenhower, who was appointed as commander in chief of the allied forces that ultimately landed in France in 1944.

                One lesson observed during the Marshall era: incompetence was quickly dealt with but second chances were offered freely. Ricks points out that  at least five men were relieved of command during WW II but each of them was given a chance to redeem himself by leading troops again into combat.

                The MacArthur Era, also known as the Korean war years, saw a much different way of generals being treated. MacArthur tended to promote those who were loyal to him. MacArthur had a radically different way of dealing with the civilian command structure of the US military establishment- he pretty much ignored them doing as he pleased. President Truman finally was forced to take action and relieve MacArthur of his command during the Korean era.

                The generals of the Vietnam era also had challenging relationships with civilian authorities such as the Secretary of Defense, the National Security Advisor, and, of course, the President.  Ricks’ chapter on that era is titled, ‘The Collapse of Generalship in the 1960’s.” The picture he paints of Army leadership here in the states and in Vietnam is an ugly one. He connects the events at My Lai and the ultimate withdrawal from the conflict in Vietnam with the failure of generalship as well as the breakdown of effective communication between Army leaders and political leaders.

                During the post Vietnam years the army seemed to drift between training generals to be strategic thinkers or training generals how to be better managers. Ricks’ survey of that period (1968-1990) is an interesting reflection on some of the many challenges of that era.

                Since 1991 the army has been more or less engaged in several ongoing conflicts notably in Iraq and Afghanistan. Again Ricks is able to compare and contrast American generals an their widely divergent philosophies and the conduct of the military actions in those fields. Ricks reminds his readers that it is one thing to plan an invasion and a completely different thing to plan an occupation and a withdrawal. Generals tend to be great at planning large scale military operations such as invasions and not so good at long term actions- as is evident in the continuing debate over America’s military presence in both countries.

                Finally Ricks offers a several part solution by reflecting on what advice George Marshall might give today’s generals. First, Marshall might tell generals to keep their social distance from their political leaders, yet he would insist on being heard by those leaders. Second, Marshall might recommend that generals be more adaptive and flexible than ever before. We don’t face the Red Army who threaten to march over Eastern and Western Europe as they did in the 1950’s through the late 1980’s. Third, Ricks thinks Marshall would insist on training generals to think strategically instead of tactically. This bias of Ricks is clear throughout the entire book- and I think it is one worth reflecting on for pastors and other ministry leaders (more in a moment). Further, Marshall might recommend that we relieve commanders quickly but that we build in second chances. Ricks concludes his recommendations by writing, “abide by the belief that the lives of soldiers are more important that the career of officers – and that winning wars is more important than either” (461).

                So, what does a study of generalship have to do with a pastor or ministry leader? You could argue that we are in a spiritual war, and that the stakes are still life and death. I think however, a better argument can be made for the following suggestions:

                We need to know history. As a parent of two millennials and as a community member deeply involved in the public school setting in my community I am appalled at the lack of teaching regarding history in our schools. Second, we as pastors are often very well trained in tactics but not so schooled in strategies. Conferences abound on how to do small groups, how to improve worship teams, how to plan your messages for a year and so on. Many of the ads I receive for conferences still promise that if my team and I attend our church will grow like the host church grew.

                Over the decades of pastoring I have attended a few of those conferences, come home with the newest tactics and immediately implemented tactics for which the people I serve and the community in which I live are simply not applicable. Instead I need to spend more time thinking deeply about strategic issues. One observation that Ricks made that bears repeating:

“training tends to prepare one for known problems, while education better prepares one for the unknown, the unpredictable, and the unexpected.” (419-420).

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October 7, 2013 · 3:52 pm

 

How the West Really Lost God: A New Theory of Secularization Mary Eberstadt

West Conshohocken, PA:Templeton Press. 2013. Kindle Edition.

 

What is the real reason for the rising tide of secularism that seems ready to drown any semblance of Christianity? She argues that the normally accepted theses describing the rise of secularism-the Marxist understanding that religion is merely an opiate for the people; the Enlightenment and the advance of science; the collapse of modernity during the early to mid-20th century as two world wars swept our world; the floodtide of material progress all fall short of truly explaining the demise of religious attendance in the European west, Great Britain, and the United States. Instead, she writes, “[T]he process of secularization, I will argue, has not been properly understood because it has neglected to take into account this “Family Factor”—meaning the active effect that participation in the family itself appears to have on religious belief and practice.”

 

She seeks to put the normally accepted theories of secularization on their head- demonstrating that the real cause of secularization may very well be the demise of the two parent (husband and wife)family as typically defined in most of the West over the past few centuries.

 

She succeeds at raising a question that needs to be further researched and discussed. What is the relationship between the demise of the family and the deterioration of morality in our world? Instead of seeing the traditional family as the victim of secularization her research seems to point to an opposite conclusion. As the American poet, William Wallace famously wrote, “the hand that rocks the cradle Is the hand that rules the world.”

 

The implications for those of us in ministry, and indeed those of us who are engaged in social programs are profound. Unless there is a renewal of protection for the traditional family we may very well be looking at the collapse of whatever moral order we previously enjoyed. If the traditional family is indeed one of the causes of the rise of secularism we must act before it gets any later. Quoting the sociologist, Sorokin, she notes that calamity may very well be a catalyst for change. Let us pray that we who have influence in family ministry and social planning in our communities catch the urgency of the calamity in order that we might lead the charge to renew and reestablish a biblical understanding of the family.

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September 30, 2013 · 4:36 pm

The Compromise of Naaman?

The healing of Naaman, recorded in 2 Kings 5 has always left me with a question. As he prepared to leave after his healing he asked for forgiveness as he accompanied his master, the king of Aram, in worshiping an idol. Elijah’s answer “Go in peace” (2 Kings 5:19a) has always left me conflicted.

Naaman’s healing was real and immediate. His response certainly indicates a changed heart as well as a changed body (2 Kings 5:15).

The Bible teaches that we must live separated lives- clearly distinct from those who are participating in ungodly behaviors. But Elijah seemed to make an exception for Naaman. Is his testimony about the uniqueness of God thorough? Or, by participating in the worship of an idol with the king of Aram is Naaman setting a standard of compromise that can – and may very well explain the weakness of Western Christianity- lead to syncretism?

Just asking….

 

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